Proactive HIV/AIDS education can occur anywhere and should always include your family and loved ones. By providing facts, offering prevention options, listening to and addressing concerns, and dispelling myths about HIV infection, individuals can protect current and future generations from HIV infections.
HIV can be spread through unprotected sexual intercourse from male to female, female to male, male to male, or female to female. Unprotected sexual intercourse means sexual intercourse without correct and consistent use of a latex condom or any other physical barrier to HIV (such as the female condom).
HIV may be in an infected person's blood, semen, or vaginal secretions. It can enter the body through certain types of tissues, especially the tissues that line the inside of the vagina, anus, and penis. It can also enter through cuts or tears (some of which may already be present, and some of which may occur during intercourse) in the vagina, penis, rectum, or mouth. HIV is transmitted by anal, vaginal, or oral sexual intercourse with a person who is infected with HIV.
Since many infected people have no symptoms, it's hard to be sure who is or is not infected with HIV. The more sex partners someone has without using condoms, the greater his or her chances are of encountering one who is infected, and becoming infected.
Sharing needles, syringes, or other drug preparation “works” even once with another person is an easy way to be infected with HIV. Blood from an infected person can remain in or on a needle or syringe and then be transferred directly into the body of the next person who uses it.
While spreading of HIV can happen when people share needles to inject illegal drugs, the sharing of needles and syringes used for injecting other substances could transmit HIV. Types of needles include those used to inject steroids or vitamins and those used for tattooing or ear or body piercing.
A woman infected with HIV can pass the virus on to her baby during pregnancy or during birth. She can also pass it on when breastfeeding. If a woman is infected before or during pregnancy, her child has about 1 chance in 4 of being born infected. Following a specific drug regimen that includes drug therapies during pregnancy can reduce this risk to about 1 in 12.
Although in the past some people became infected with HIV from receiving blood transfusions, this risk is extremely low now. Since 1985, all donated blood has been tested for evidence of HIV. All blood found to contain evidence of HIV is discarded. Giving blood at a blood bank or at other established blood collection centers is not a risk for HIV infection. The needles used for blood donations are sterile. They are used once, then destroyed.
HIV infection doesn't just happen. People don't simply “catch” it like a cold or flu. Unlike cold or flu viruses, HIV is not spread by coughs or sneezes, sweat, or tears. HIV is not spread through everyday contact with infected people at school, at work, at home, or anywhere else.
HIV is not spread by clothes, phones, or toilet seats. It can't be passed on by things like spoons, cups, or other objects that someone who is infected with the virus has used. HIV is not spread by bites from mosquitoes. HIV does not live in a mosquito, and it is not transmitted through a mosquito's salivary glands like other diseases such as malaria or yellow fever. HIV is not spread by bedbugs, lice, flies, or other insects. HIV is not spread through closed-mouth kissing. Experts maintain that casual contact through closed-mouth or “social” kissing is not a risk for transmission of HIV.
An important part of being ready to talk to young people about preventing HIV infection and AIDS is being able to answer questions they may ask. If someone asks you a question about HIV infection or AIDS and you do not know the answer, it's okay to say you don't know. Don't make up an answer—you may be providing inaccurate information that can cause a lot of harm. Take steps to obtain accurate information.
Treat a tough question as a chance to show the questioner how to get information about HIV infection and AIDS independently. You, or anyone else, can get accurate answers to difficult questions by calling your local AIDS Hotline or the CDC INFO line, 1-800-CDC-INFO. You do not have to give your name, and the call is free.
To help you answer questions that might be raised by your child or someone in your family, read some commonly asked questions with scientifically correct answers.
Young people today often face tough decisions about sex and drugs. Most likely, you will not be with the children you care about when they face these choices. But if you talk to them about decision-making and HIV and AIDS prevention now, you can help them resist peer pressure and make informed choices that will help protect their health, now and for the rest of their lives.
Think of Yourself as a Counselor
When talking with a young person about HIV infection and AIDS, think of your
role as that of counselor, advisor, coach, best friend, or guide. Your goal: to help a
young person learn how to make smart decisions about how to stay healthy and
avoid infection with HIV.
Tips for Starting a Conversation
An effective way to start any conversation is to be informed first and to be a good listener and communicator. You can start talking about HIV infection and AIDS at any time and in any way you choose. If you find it awkward to raise the topic, you can look for cues that will help you. Here are some examples:
How to Keep The Conversation Running Smoothly. Talking about HIV infection and AIDS can be difficult. You may feel uncomfortable just thinking about it. That's understandable. If you are nervous or embarrassed, don't be afraid to say so. Bringing your feelings into the open can help break the tension. Besides, a young person will sense your uneasiness even if you don't mention it. Here are some suggestions.